Monday, July 2, 2007

women are from venus, men are from hell.

i cant remember how or where i got that title from. but just so you know, i'm not condemning, not being judgemental to all guys (well, not at all). sorry but in fact, i have to say its true. to every man who reads this, say what you wanna say, argue whatever you can to deny that. TV movies songs radio Internet, well, the whole world tell us that. we're not being judgemental. well, even if we are, we have tried so hard no to be, yet it still happens.


one thing that brought me to this topic is the so-called-MANJAMEL foundation (ci, who made the name? sounds a bit corny hehe) has posted the article on one of the members' blog few days ago, as the result of the so-called-maneater issues happening around. in relation, to share a bit about what has happened or *is currently happening, there are this group of young adults (in the average of 18-26) which is happened to incidentally have almost the SAME drama as the famous TV shows, namely "One Tree Hill" and "The O.C." and oh, plus "The Hills" too. you know those typical drama story when a groups of girls and guys have mingled around since they were young (or at least for few years), they share most of their time together day and night, days by days, years through years; well, in short, they happen to have a circle relationship (i wont define this in details! you, readers, should figure it out yourselves!), which is keep going on and i can say, there is almost no way to stop it. some of them have gone through it and are okay with it whereas somebody else still deals with it and tries hard not to have it again. but well, its undeniable. they all brought up in the same place, went to the same schools, in the same circle of friends, hang around with the same crowd, the exact same places (blame it to the governors, businessmen, investors for being incompetent, not creative, and careless to build new places! -sorry, that's kinda out of topic. hehe-), plus, some of their parents also know each other.


anyway, my point is that circle relationship is not always bad. depends on how you see it and get used to the fact that it might bring you to the situation where you have to see your ex(s) is(are) seeing one of your friends. depends on how deep you would go for it. especially with the fact that guys could be heartless and so much careless about our feeling, just dont dig too deep if you dont want to get yourself buried in the hole. it is just about you being ready with the drama. well, i hope that this thing wont continue to the next level (if you know what i mean). i've had it enough with the 'real' One Tree Hill, The O.C., or The Hills. i dont want to watch another wisteria lane drama. especially, be involved in it.

*sigh
drama. drama. drama. people are never too tired for that.